“Judgment means you view the world as you are, rather than as it is.”
Our frame of reference is usually ourselves. It’s right there within our mind! The ego does not like to work hard.
Francois de La Rochefoucauld, the noted French moralist and author of the 17th century, took note of this in writing “Everyone complains of his memory, and nobody complains of his judgment.”
There is a blessing we give ourselves when we choose to accept life with openness.